Over the years I’ve matured in my ways and my thinking. I like to think I’m usually a pretty decent human being to my family, friends and oftentimes strangers. But I’ve come to be acquainted with a couple women (and I don’t really want to call them that) who haven’t progressed emotionally since they were about 12 or 14. So I’m going to help them out, and any others how may need some reminding. Another women is most likely your best friend, not always, but most likely. So let’s treat each other as such.
Here’s my rules:
I will Tell her that her butt looks great in those pants – she’ll walk prouder and it WILL look great!
I will give up my seat to a pregnant lady or a woman with small kids on public transportation and help women with strollers up and down the stairs and I will hold the door.
I will always let another woman know there’s no toilet paper in a toilet stall, or alternately, pass her toilet paper if she needs some.
I will never sleep with another woman’s man. And I will tell my girl friends if their man is stepping out on them.
I will not engage in body-snarking another woman, either behind her back or to her face.
I will always offer up my single man friends to my single ladies. Just because I don’t want them doesn’t mean one of my girlfriends won’t!
I will like her boyfriend/husband because she does.
I will always have a shoulder and never judge her…this is difficult but important, no judging.
I will let my friend win an argument because I care more about her than the subject we’re discussing (still working on this one!).
No flirting, trying to steal or any other bitchy/narcissistic girl behavior. Just do go there.
Look out for each other.
I snitched some of these from other ladies. If you have more please comment!