All you single girls out there…How many times have you heard this? How many times have you said this to a woman friend?
Why does everyone think a woman must have or even want a man constantly in her life? I like men just as much as the next girl but sometimes I just don’t want them around. This is the first time since I was 19 that I have had a nice long stretch without a man constantly involved in my life. I must tell you, I’m enjoying it. I do the things I want to do, I clean when I want to clean, I eat when I want to eat, I don’t have to watch football if I don’t want to, I don’t have to deal with another person’s baggage. It’s nice. There are a few negatives but on the whole, life is good! Besides, I’m getting very choosey. I’ve been dating but right now that’s as far as I want to go. When I’m ready I’ll find one I want to keep around for a while, but please, stop thinking I’m not whole and asking if I’ve got a man yet!